attitude

attitude is what people are looking at when they met you at first sight. am i right or right? haha. okay, here you go, for me, attitude is a person appearance. attitude will be our self image. i'm not telling you guys for the fact that i'm good enough to tell you about this attitude things, it's just, i think, with this, it'll open everyone's mind and also mine, how important does our attitude means in our life.

first, attitude is what people will judge us based on. okay, example ali didn't actually meant to let abu's pencil lost. when abu found out about it, he just put on his kind of annoying face to ali. ali try his best to search for abu's pencil. but, there's no a single signs that he can find it. so, ali decided to buy abu a new one, but he did''t tell abu. one day, ali send abu a text message, "hey, have you buy a new pencil?" abu reply, "no, not yet". continued, "haha. just chill okay. do you still want to find that kind of pencil?", "hurm, i don't know", "okay okay, i'd like to buy you a new pencil, i'll try my best to search the same, exactly like your old, but if i can't find it, is that okay if i buy you a new one, but not the same like the old, can?" "hurmmm, that was the last one, the last type of my pencil, at the moment i bought it, it was the last one!" "okay chill, let me look for it first, okay?" "find it!" ali felt like all the blame has been put on him, ALL. it's not like ali meant to let it lost, someone's just stole it. haihhhh. ali went everywhere which he think he can probably get the same type of abu's pencil, but there's nothing, nothing are the same.

ali thought about just give abu a cash, then let abu find it himself. but ali didn't tell abu about that. he just keep on live in silence. one day, ali got a text message from abu, he say, "did you found the pencil, if you did not, just give me the money, i'll buy it myself", ali didn't reply, he's in shock actually. pehhh! and from that moment, he realize that all the blame has been put on him, he's the one with all wrongs. ali and abu has beeen friends for like years, but when this case had happen, ali felt like he just know the real abu was. dissapointed. ali gave about the cash without saying a word about what he felt. later on, ali put all his strength to tell abu about what he felt. he send him a text message, "hey, this is not the way to treat a friend. like i'm the one to blame. okay? it's my fault, but not all. i'm okay with you, cause i know who you really are, but if you did the same thing to other people, what do you think they might been thinking about? they'll be talking bad about your attitude to others" bla bla bla, the conversation had been continued for like, two long messages. then, "okay, take your money back tomorrow" "hey, i don't need that, at all. it means nothing, all i want is your attitude on treating your own friend, daah! go and buy a new pencil, bye" this is not what should happen. tired enough. judge it yourself.

and for closing, here, i'd like to put this in your mind, so, read closely, have a nice day :) haha